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Why A Sex Therapist Rather Than Other Type Therapist?

by Dr. Arlene Krieger, PhD

Let’s start with why you may need a sex therapist and what to expect in sex therapy, and what sex therapists can accomplish in your life. It is important to understand that we as human beings don’t exist in a unilateral world. We are almost always in relationship with one or another persons. Whether it be work or personal life, there is a systemic flow to who you are and how you interact in the world around you. In your relationship the issues of sex, intimacy, love, career, health and life in general all add up to who you and your mate are, together, as one entity.

In sex therapy we often important to break down these individual issues and isolate the actual sexual issues from the relationship factors. Although if is often difficult to separate the two, that’s exactly what your sex therapist attempts.Ton better understand sequences of behavior and patterns of interaction in your relationship, therapy helps you to gain clarity on who you are and what you expect from your partner. A loving relationship depends on a healthy sex life and vice versa.

Fixing a relationship doesn’t necessarily mean the sex life automatically becomes healthy, though it can at times. There is a method behind the madness of therapy and sex therapy. We do not perform magic, though at times it can seem so. It is work, and hard work on everyone’s part. The original therapeutic models for sex therapy go back more than three decades to the pioneering sexologists.

Premature ejaculation, erectile disorder, performance anxiety, orgasmic dysfunctions, low libido, and lack of desire are all issues of which a trained sexologist is familiar and can offer therapy and often a remedy. Often couples report that they have simply “fallen out of love.”

Sexologists do not simply do couples counseling for married adults. We are trained in a variety of sexual dynamics, lifestyles and complaints. If one has difficulties finding the properr therapy fit, their family doctor can make a referral.

Sexologists have devoted much time and research in order to gain an understanding of human sexuality and human behaviors. The training and coursework is very specific to sexuality issues. In choosing a therapist of your choice, make sure that the clinician you choose, has received both a proper education, as well as clinical supervision from a university that offers a state qualified human sexuality graduate program.


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